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writes:HiI really need some advises :( I feel like i'm too skinny and i've been a skinny girl since i was little. (im 21 at the moment) Tried to eat loads but never work out. I'm tall (5'8), skinny, so my boobs are just 32A or maybe AA when i drop weight. This problem has been annoying me the most in these few years. I know i shouldnt care about what guys think about my boobs like if they loved me they should love however i am. But seriously, I'm not even confident to put on a swimsuit/ bikini. I always have to buy bras that are padded or either push up bras so they'd look bigger. I know guys who love small breasts might mean they could only accept B. Seriously, i dont think any guy would feel like hes actually having sex with a girl with just a 32A cup size girl. It really let me down. I am considering a boob job but i also know guys dont like fake tits. Grrr I'm so confused. But if i ever had one I'm doing it for myself mainly. Ofcourse it'd make me feel more feminie and sexier. Is there any possible chances that i can gain more fat on chest area? I dont need large tits, but i just actually want them to be bigger, just to make me feel like a woman. But you know I just feel like im lying after i take off my clothes. I dont like that feeling.So any girl has done a boob job before? How do they feel? What if I just want a B cup would they still look fake and feel like plastic? If i ever had one i wouldnt tell my boyfriend...I also heard that taking birth control pills to help to enlarge boobs. But i know they shrink back once you stop taking it...But i wonder if theres any case that the boobs wont shrink back to the actual size (lol) Sorry for the long question but this is really my struggle and I dont know who else to tell. Thank you so much for reading it and would be most grateful if you can tell me what you think!
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reader, Mystery Girl  +, writes (3 February 2010):
i know how u feel girl. i'm a 34 to 36B. mine are abit bigger then my hands but are very perky and firm. i like how they look but i don't like the size. the hole gavity thing is the only thing that makes me feel better. just think the girls with the C or bigger cup boobs won't be as young and perky looking as ours. we will look much younger and sexier to 'our men' when we are older.
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reader, MsGraceGold +, writes (13 January 2010):
Right now, it sounds like you're very concerned with what men and other people think about your breasts. You're so much more than your breasts!!
If you can get to a healthier mind set about your breasts and still want a breast augmentation, there are some very natural-looking options. I've had a breast augmentation myself, and no one has been able to tell - not even my friends! My before and after pics are at the link below.
The trick is to go with a moderate size, and to go under the muscle so that your natural breast tissue is over it - so that you feel your tissue, not the implant when you touch the breast.
Good luck!
-Grace
Grace Gold is the author of the eBook, The Boob Job Bible: 10 Steps To A Sexy, Safe Breast Augmentation
(http://www.TheBoobJobBible.com)
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much. You guys are awesome!
Never thought there're still some good people in this world lol
thank you! x
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2010): If the push-ups and the padding help you to feel good, then stay with them; nobody who cares for you will regard you as fake.
I used to work in a retail TV hire shop, and a few doors along a couple of girls ran a fashionable clothing shop. They always looked immaculate and sexy, but had chests that were ironing-board flat.
It didn't stop all my male colleagues (and me, I admit it) drooling over them whenever they came into our shop and asked for help with something!
They were super-confident with their bodies and knew the effect they had on us and any men within a 100 mile radius, so all you have to do, as I said earlier, is to love yourself and what you've got - these two did, and it worked!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2010): Give a guy a hug from behind. He's gonna like it no matter how big your boobs are ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2010): I also have size 32A breasts and I want to tell you not to worry about it. When you find the right man, he won't care what size your breasts are. My boyfriend says he loves mine. And I know he'd rather be with me with my own real but small boobs than know I had plastic implants in my body. I used to struggle with hating my body but when I met my boyfriend, body confidence came with it. Small breasts don't affect your sex-life at all, so you have no worries. Many guys like small breasts. Just learn to love yourself, and don't worry, a good push-up bra is the way to go in this situation - no surgery necessary.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much for you guys trying to help. I really feel much better after reading your responses. No lie!
But one more thing Im worrying about is that, Im using padded bra and push up bras to make my boobs look better at the moment. But what if one day I had sex with my future boyfriend? I dont want to feel like im a liar! But putting on these bras can really give me confidence 'cause at least they give my body a better shape!! :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2010): most guys hate fake breasts.
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (2 January 2010):
 You're young. Later in your 20's your metabolism slows down and you'll probably gain a few more pounds, which will result in more fat in your boobs. So for now, invest in some really sexy push up bras that have padding on the sides to push what you have to the front and center and just be confident about who you are. Don't get wrapped around the axil over this one thing. There is so much more to you than your boobs. I really think most women regret having a plastic object stuck into their body and generally they end up feeling self conscious about the fact that their boobs don't feel "real" or look quite natural enough. Save your money and your health.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (2 January 2010):
Take it from a male. Fake breasts are always fake. Also take it from a male that a guy will like you for who you are, your friend will like you for who you are, because you are who you are. You are more than just a pair of breasts. You're a woman. Love yourself, and people will love you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2010): There are those that like the plastic, over-inflated look, but when gravity takes over they will have a nice pair of belly-warmers!
You, on the other hand, will ALWAYS be firm and pert. Be proud. It doesn't affect how you perform sexually in the least and many, many blokes love small boobs.
ALL that matters - and I mean this - is that they give you pleasure when your partner licks and sucks them, or caresses them. I love to do that for my partner, and as long as I am giving her pleasure, truly, nothing else matters. SIZE is not an issue.
You do know that blokes fret about the size of their equipment just as much, don't you? Even more, really!
Learn to love yourself and what you have got.
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