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*ameleon89
writes:Hello dear cupid. I’m with my GF 3 years already, and on Christmas she told me she wants a « heart breakable « jewellery for the both of us. She told me that it would represent our eternal love, and relationship. Well at the beginning I didn’t think well, so I bought her and for me too and we « broke « the heart in 2 pieces”. Then on New Year, we went to a party, and some friends guys of mine saw it, and laughed a little bit and told that it’s for children 15-17 years. I felt a bit guilty, don’t know why. Now each time I watch at it, I think that I can’t wear it because it’s for children and what will others think. Positive or negative answers advices will be accepted with joy. So my questions Is am i reacting normal? Should I care what others will think about the little present? Thank you
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reader, hameleon89 +, writes (3 January 2010):
hameleon89 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you i say really thank you for all your answers :) i think you are wright, the most important is me and my GF and oothers point oppinion doesn't matter...
Hope you had a nice happy new year =)
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (2 January 2010):
 It has nothing to do with age - if YOU like it and SHE likes it, who cares what everyone else thinks?
I think it's rather cute to be honest, not all men can do a think like that. It takes a bit of gut!
It's not like it is jewelry from a gumball machine :)
Go for it!
Lev livet og vaer glad :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2010): if you and your GF like it then wear it, dont worry about wht others think. They will soon forget it and stop saying things!
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (2 January 2010):
 Actually the immature thing is to worry about what everyone is thinking. I do agree to wear it under your shirt, close to your heart. That is what I did at your age.
FA
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (2 January 2010):
 No you shouldn't care what they think. Sometimes it is the innocent child like gestures that make a relationship strong and give it special meaning...thats why people sometimes give eachother teddy bears or something that smells of their partner (like a sweater) when they are apart.
It's a gesture of love
Aunty Em xxx
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (2 January 2010):
Your girlfriend wanted it because it symbolized something that was important to her. Your friends might think it's for kids, but who cares what they think. It was important to your girlfriend, and that is what matters. Don't' worry about it.
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