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writes:okay i know this is probably a stupid thing to get so upset about. i just really dont know what to do! im 17 now, when i was 14, i met this guy.. he was 18, so i never thought anything would go further than the comforting hug which i got every now and again (while i was going through a rough family time) until one day when he kissed me, we ended up going out with each other but only for a few weeks, my friend came along and messed it up for us, and we didnt speak for years. then randomly about 3 weeks ago, he added me on facebook! and we got chatting, about the past, and how grown up we are now, and about previous relationships we've had.. how unlucky we've been with the opposite sex, how much we still really liked each other, and we got texting, we were texting till early hours of the morning, i fell asleep and woke up to the cutest message ever :) (we'd got chatting on a sunday) then the day i woke up, the monday.. we ended up meeting, he picked me up at about half 6, we went for a drive, it was lovely, we just chatted, had a nice catch up. he gave me a hug :) we parked up for abit, kissed. a lot. we were out till about half 11, then he dropped me home, we text alll night, spoke on facebook the day after, he picked me up from college on the wednesday, then we met on thursday, spoke every day, he text me, he told me he loved me, then we spoke again about how much we liked each other. it seemed at first to be him doing all the talking, he text me first, he spoke to me first, he asked to meet me, he kissed me... and he back off i think, so i spoke to him first on facebook, but he was a bit off with me :\ asked me to meet him but i couldnt, id arranged a girly night with my friend. i think he was joking, but he was like 'i think you should invite me to your friends, and we could sneak off for a bit :p' and then because i said no, he went all weird on me! (this was the day before new years eve) and now ive just spoken to him on facebook chat, and he hasnt replied, and i wished him happy new year, and he never replied! and i just dont know whats wrong with him!! or what ive done! he asked me out and everything the first time we met up.. and now.. everything seems to of changed! what could be wrong with him? please help me! i feel so upset as it is, over other things :\ thanks! xxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2010): He is just another nut! Don't think about him again . He is not worth your time! I think guys have some real issues nowadays. They expect girls to chase them and coddle them. Something odd is changing in our world. Girls are jumping through hoops and on top of guys. Girls are making it too easy for them. They like to hunt but they don't know how anymore.
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reader, Anonymous! +, writes (2 January 2010):
 aww that sounds horrible! i know how you feel im kind of with this guy who goes all hot and cold. make sure he isnt just going to use you for sex, try giving him the silent treatment and see if he comes running back. your young, its not the end of the world, chin up and have fun and wait for his reply! good luck, all the best!
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reader, jas8  +, writes (2 January 2010):
hey, sorry bout what you going through, i think iv been in the same scenario, although i was the guy. Now the way i felt was that i told her i loved her and that for me was a huge thing, and all she could do was go partying or go out, why cudnt she spend time wit me, i was head over heels. Basically long story short, he thinks that u dont feel the same and that u possibly arent lookin for commitment, where as he probably is. Make it up to him, invite him over or, go see him, guys really like when u make that effort, even though we dont show it. if he carries on ignorin u then, give him the silent treatment bak, that usually works out ;)
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