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writes:hi. im a lil confused by a cituation im in. when i was in highschool i had a good female friend. we talked every day at school, but that was pretty much the extent of it. we would flirt every now and then but she was in a relationship. although one day i got into some trouble and was expelled. it may sound unrelated but it is. i got into a fight with the school councilor because he would not let me graduate due to the way i dress and act. he called me a lil thug wannabe A-hole. so after that i was expelled and he was fired. they kept it pretty much underwraps nobody knew about it. i was put on probation and met a girl at a shopping center. we dated for a year before she died. i loved her and her the same. she was murdered by a drunk driver. after i was released from probation i moved away and got a new job. two years pass and the girl from my class i'd talk to each day came into my work. she was there for other reasons but spotted me and ran up and hugged me. we started talking and flirting. we exchanged phone numbers. over the last month we've been texting off and on. should i take this any further? she still doesnt know what happnd or why i left school. should i tell her? this sounds a lil weird and i cant believe im asking this but is this fate or something? she is single now and we flirt quite alot. she's single now and so am i. im not sure what quite to make of this. should i ask her out?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (2 January 2010):
If you're both single, then there's no reason why you can't date. If you really like her, then it's worth talking to her about it. For what it's worth, I had a crap school counsellor too, so I understand it wasn't your fault, and hopefully she will too if you decide you want to tell her. Though you don't need to say anything until much further down the line, and unless she asks.
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