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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I've been friends with this girl for some months now... and we get along really well, I couldn't ask for anything more. We talk a lot, for hours and hours and we've been hanging out and whatnot, at one point we even told people we were a couple as a joke, but lately I've been thinking about her, and I gotta admit I like her.I'm kinda scared because I found myself getting a bit jealous when she mentions stuff about other guys... and some other things that have made my feelings grow a bit more, but I try to keep myself conscious... I got out of a relationship around 5 months ago, and she also just got out of one recently, we're trying to stay single... but we kinda know we're wanting to get back into a relationship.I wouldn't mind going out with her and having a serious thing with her, but at the same time I think I'm afraid of losing the friendship. I'm confused, I don't really know what to do, any help?
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reader, LondonAnonymous  +, writes (2 January 2010):
You can't help who you like mate and it's a leap of faith from this point onward. I've never had a female friend on par with my male mates, so I can't really offer concrete advice on how it could go. I'd tread carefully though and see what feels right/wrong.
Good luck, all the best and have a happy new year.
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