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writes:Ok. This is my issue. I am recently divorced (42) and I have been seeing this man for about 4 months (he is 45. We live 3 hours apart. Things were going really well. We were spending almost every weekend together. Then he went cold. Phone calls became infrequent, visits became none. I only started hearing from him once a week. The last time he called me, I asked him when was I going to see him again. He acted as if he couldn't hear me, rolled his car window down and said I'll call you back. After two hours of not hearing back from him, I texted him saying, it was obvious that he wasn't making any attempt to see me again, so game over. He won. I have not heard from his since. At first I was really sad by his actions, now I am just pissed. Will he ever call me again? And if not, what went wrong to turn him completely off. I am guessing maybe he was seeing someone else, but he seemed as though he was becoming real attached to me. We talked as though we were in a relationship. I just want him to call me so I can ignore his calls and have the satisfaction of not calling him back. Will I get my last wish from him??? No, I have not called him nor am I going to.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you both for responding the way you did. I appreciate both responses. I also checked his facebook page which was really vague and came across his ex-girlfriends page. One of her status reports was, why does someone want all the benefits of playing house, but can't commit to marriage. I am sure that was regarding him. They were together for about 7 years. Have 3 children together (2 twin girls, 1 boy - 4&5) but he never married her. She moved out about 10 months ago. So I am sure she is still around. However, I still want that revenge!!! Thanks again...... I will keep you posted.
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reader, klc5252 +, writes (2 January 2010):
well he may call you again and if he does do you think you could not stand to answer? i hope so because if you do that will give him the understanding he can treat you this way. rarely do we ever get the revenge that we want or only when we do it is not important anymore. only when you have no feelings of revenge are you over it. so instead of wishing for the day when you get your revenge look forward to the day when you no longer need it. not sure if this helps but to be treated that way you are to good for him anyways. easy for me to say huh? i know i have been through it many times before. time wounds all heals. :)
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reader, Brooklyngirl +, writes (2 January 2010):
 I'm sorry this happened to you. The first thought I had, was that he met someone else. Of course, I don't know what really happened...but from my experience, that would be my guess!
No, I don't think you will get that last wish, unless things fizzle in his current situation. I would just chalk it up to experience and move on! Better you see his true colors now!
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