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30-35,
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writes:Ok so the other day I posted a question asking how to get over my much older teacher (I'm 15 and he's 50). I never expected it to go anywhere, but the other day it did. I have his class last period, and it just so happened to be my birthday. My friend in that class had told him about it a few weeks before, but I never thought he would remember it. Anyway, he asked me to stay after class that day. I did and he asked me if I could keep a secret, because he could loose his job if I ever told anyone. I said I wouldn't and no matter what advice I am given, I will not turn him in. So anyway, after I promised not to tell anyone anything, he gave me a pink envelope (which I assumed was a birthday card.) He said Happy Birthday, and to not open it if front of anyone. He also said that if we wanted to talk about it we could, and if I didn't he could have me transfered out of his class. At this point I had sort of already figured out what this was all about ,but I didn't want to say anything in case I was wrong. When I got home, I went into my room and read the card. It said that he didn't expect any of his feelings to be mutual, but he loved me. He said he never expected to love someone so much younger, but he couldn't help it and he wanted me to know that I will always have a place in his heart, no matter what I feel. This was yesterday, and I don't have his class until Friday. I sent him an email saying that I wanted to talk after class then, and he replied that that would be great. He has a wife but no kids, and I love him, but I don't want to ruin his career. Would it be wrong to kiss him? I really want to but I'm not sure it would be a good idea. No matter what I will not report him, I just want to talk. What should I say to him? Thanks in advance for the advice.
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reader, kitty_3 +, writes (16 January 2010):
 oh, gosh. i'm jealous of you and the second anonymous! so many girls would kill to get a letter like that from a certain teacher...
if you think he's sincere, you should ask him to wait until you graduate. you can still flirt, but you wouldn't want to get him in trouble.
and by the time you do graduate, if he's really committed to making it work he will have left his wife.
good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2010): If you feel that he's quite serious and sincere about the claim of loving you than my dear you should go for it! I'm a fifteen year old girl currently in 10th grade and inlove with a global teacher who is 36 so that is about 21 years in age difference! I've been in love with him now for a year and half and I know if what I have felt for the past year and half has though me is that there is nothing that exists called "forbidden love" it's quite ridiculous in it's own sense since these words can't possibly go together in such a way! You live life once my dear so go for it!!! Since you've got both parties willing to take forth action on their feelings than what in gods name are you waiting for!!! The one you love has proclaimed his feeling for you!!!! And it seems that your situation isn't as dire as mine....my love married to a lovely German girl that is beautiful inside and out!!! You clearly have chance with you and also remember age is just a number but love lasts forever!!!! Good luck to you with whatever decision you make and may god be with you!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2010): You love him if you do you shouldn't even think about doing anything like that because even if you don't tell on him some could see you two (they might even see something that is nothing but if the translate it differently you both could get into trouble (he could lose he job,go to prison and put on sex offenders list is that what you want??if you two love each other (as you say you do) you both will wait til you are legal. if he steps over the line(which he is on the border of now) he loses everything.
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