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Do I bring up the subject? And how?

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Question - (2 January 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 12 January 2010)
A male United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Last year I was at my friends house and we where waching a nude movie. He kept saying ''I would do anything for a blow job now'' and so I said I would do it as a friend. I really thought a hand job was a blow job then. He said ''thats not a blow job but whatever''. Then I heard a noise outside and he quickly put ''it'' away and said ''thats fine''. He is coming over soon and I would like to give it to him. How would I bring it up? Am I gay? Please help.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2010):

you should not do it if you dnt wnt to! i think if he is asking you to do it he should know better how old are you?? if hes much older then you then i think he is sike to be asking someone very much younger then him to do somthngif you dont want to do t then dont do it but i think you shouldnt! xx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2010):

well if you oferd to give him a blow job as a mate then i dont thik your gay but if you really want to then you might be gay?!if yo o do it then if you injoy it then your gay if you dont then your not and you just say to him remembe that time you would do anything for a bow-job/hanjob and now i could do it now if you want i dont mind yeah sound good well try it and find out if it dont work thenn oh well

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2010):

You aren't necessarily gay and I think the terms 'gay' and 'straight' are actually really limiting. My boyfriend had sexual relationships previously with a man [as well as many with women] and I just think that at the very least, it means you are open to exploring your sexuality and having new experiences. So as long as you're safe, you're fine. Don't limit yourself to gay or straight, and don't worry about being gay or straight, people are just people.

In terms of bringing it up, maybe try reminding him of the other night and as him if he would like to pick up where you left off, but bring it up naturally, don't just be like "Alright, whip it out!"

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