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I don't really feel anything when I masturbate, am I doing it wrong?

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Question - (2 January 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 11 July 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Hi. Ive masturbated myself before but it doesnt feel good. Is that normal or am I doing it wrong or anything. Im quite concerned as my mates say it feels good, when i dont really feel anything.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2010):

hello Im a 15 year old girl and I started masterbating when I was 11 years old so I steel dont feel anything I never had sex and some 15 year old boy wants me to have sex with him.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2010):

Same, I don't feel much when I or anyone else fingers me. But rubbing my clitoris (The top) feels amazing.

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (3 January 2010):

person12345 agony auntYou've probably just not figured out what feels good yet. Just because something works well for one person doesn't mean it will feel good for another. Oddly enough I wasn't able to do anything with my fingers (literally nothing felt good) until I bought myself a decent vibrator. Then I could see what good actually feels like and what an orgasm feels like. After playing with it a lot for a few months I was able to go back with my fingers and suddenly I could masturbate with my own hands. You can buy one online.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2010):

theres nothing to worry about. i find it hard to feel anything when i finger myself so i rub the hood of my clitoris which feels good and i have invested in a sex toy which is fantastic!

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A female reader, MistressNataliee United Kingdom +, writes (2 January 2010):

i cant feel much if i finger myself or if a guy does it, try experimenting with different things or buy a sex toy offline

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