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Why didn't he kiss me after our first date?

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Question - (2 January 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 2 January 2010)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I just went out on a first date with a guy I met last week. I was so excited to see him because we had a great conversation and he is very nice and attractive. I had a great time on our date and I would really like to see him again, but I'm afraid he might not be attracted to me.

We went out for a drink and ended up talking for 4 hours. There were a few awkward silences because he's a little shy, but he did compliment me on my intelligence and taste in music. I kept giving him little flirty touches on the arm and hand, but he didn't really respond.

As the night was wrapping up he said he had a really great time talking to me. He walked me to my car where we hugged and agreed that we should get together again. I was really hoping he would kiss me, but no luck.

Could it be that he is just shy, or is he not attracted to me? I felt like we really clicked in every way but physically.

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A female reader, shania United Kingdom +, writes (2 January 2010):

shania agony auntAre you seeing each other again?

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A female reader, pril United States +, writes (2 January 2010):

He may just be shy. If on ur 2 date he doesn't kiss u. U kiss him cause if he is shy he may not kiss u

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A male reader, Honest Answer United States +, writes (2 January 2010):

Honest Answer agony auntHe is just shy and thought you were too much of a lady. He is taking it slow because he thinks you are special.

Jeff

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