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*andagirl
writes:What is the opinion on a guy who REALLY REALLY likes you in the beginning of a dating relationship.I've been seeing this guy, he's not clingy, but he makes it clear that he really likes me. He doesn't pressure me for sex. He calls me when he says he will. He takes interests in my life and hobbies, etc.I'm not a kid. I'm 31 and he is 28. I tend to move slow. I just don't know what to think -- whether he is a player, or a sincere guy who wears his heart on his sleeve?
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reader, pandagirl +, writes (2 January 2010):
pandagirl is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks everyone! A couple more details:
We met online about a month ago on a popular dating site. At first, he was sexually forward with me. He didn't ask me for sex and he wasn't lewd, but he made it clear he was sexually attracted to me. I was VERY clear I was not interested in a hook up situation. (I'm ain't stupid!)
We met about 2.5 weeks ago and since then he just wants to see me all the time. I met his friends and even an ex-gf of his from a few years ago he is still friends with. I told him I wanted to move slow in terms of sex, and he respected that. He's interested in me and my hobbies. I've been gone for the last week for the holidays, and calls me every day.
Another thing: he might be moving away soon because of a job. He just told me a few days ago.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (2 January 2010):
He actually sounds like a good guy. Of course, there's always a risk he isn't. But as you say, he's not clingy and he doesn't pressure you. He just does everything else right. See what happens and where it leads. As the other post says, you'll either find out he is a player, or you have a great guy.
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reader, DeadEyeDick +, writes (2 January 2010):
 who cares? enjoy it, and expect him to be a player, that way if he is, then your not out anything, if he's not, youve got yourself a catch!
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