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writes:I am absolutely confused with what to do with my life right now :S this is why..About a year ago i met my brothers girlfriends brother and had a crush on him for no reason (lets just call him David). It was the most love ive ever felt and so unexpected, wasnt good looking or anything but just made me laugh all the time. The problem was he had a girlfriend so it hurt me to love david so much. I talked to him everynight and he told me about his problems with his girlfriend and how he was being told he couldnt talk to me anymore since she thought he had a liking for me. I came to the point where i couldnt bare to talk to david anymore but couldnt stop since it seemed like such fate i had met him. Even his sister coming over all the time was a constant reminder.About a year later i was talking to david on msn when his friend was at his house and his friend (lets call him robit) later added me on msn. I started talking to robit all the time and eventually he asked me out a month later after we'd met and i said yes. The problem is i think i only did that to get over david and maybe even to find a way to see him more. A week after i started going out with robit david finally broke up with his girlfriend and the crush came back stronger than ever.I spent new years with them both and their other friends (who i absolutely adore) but two of my girlfriends came along. i was absolutely sure david was starting to like me and it made my feelings for robit unsure, as they still are. yesterday i found out that david likes one of the girls (my bestfriend) who brought with me for new years and i felt an amazing amount of jealousy which i really shouldnt have. I really want to tell david about my feelings but i still love robit and it would be completely wrong. besides if everything goes wrong i will loose all of their friends and it would ruin my life. i just dont think my life will ever be complete without david though and i never plan to loose him but i would absolutly despise him going out with my bestfriend. i just dont want to hurt robit because i do still have feelings for him but i dont think my life would ever me complete without david i have no idea what to do pleaseeee help:(:(:(
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (2 January 2010):
 Your really young to be in a love triangle situation.
Like all things in life you need to try and make the right choice, one that is fair on you and fair on the other people involved. You cannot string two boys along because it's going to get even more difficult and messy!!
Try to be a little more relaxed about things and maybe not get too involved with boys until you really know what you want.
I know it's cliche but as you get older, your life will change, you might move away or go to a different school or college or even choose to move abroad. You will meet lots of people in your life and you will want to do other things that give your life fulfilment...these boys of your youth might not seem so important then. That said you will learn from this experience and carry it with you and it will help you with future relationships if you handle things right!
Take a step back, keep the boys as friends for now and when you have decided who you would like to date properly then just see what happens.
Best of luck
Aunty Em xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2010): girl i cryied wen i read this it mad me sooo sad it made me remember a guy named david who i had fallen in love with for no reason at all i didnt even know him that well all i knew was that my sister was dating his brother and that wen i met him he was so funney he made me laugh all the time. a week after i had met ''david'' he had to go back to lets say arizona for school and wen he left that night i cryed my self to sleep i didnt understand why i had so much fellings for him he wasnt cute/hot or anythin it was the way i had felt wen he was around me he made me fell good about me everythin that made me me. i had even found out that my best friend that i went to school with was his cousin it was sooooo inbearassing i had told her bout him she asked wat his last name was i told her and she made fun of me because they were cousins.then i started to date his best friend i was in the same sit as u r in wat i did was i asked ''david'' out he said yes. so wat u should do is just ask him out u wont regret it believe me he might say yes!!!lol
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