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anonymous
writes:me and my girlfriend are always fighting. It's becoming a daily routine. But we don't want to leave eachother.What do I do ? Reply to this Question
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reader, brandoni10 +, writes (5 March 2009):
Yo ive had this happen alot. If you really want it to work try to talk about wat you have in common and stay posotive. Dont be the one that gets mad. Just ask questions. If she starts to get upset tell her she might be over reacting. But in the end a realtionship is a friendship at the start and excels to more. Do friends ever stay mad at each other? No
So these things are just going to make it stronger or end it.
Stay optimistic and positive.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2009): Find things that you likeabout her the smell of her perfume,or hair and complement her.Where ever and when ever you can,about her legs,eyes,body,or something shes talking about just listion that wwhat most girls wont, unless its that time of the month again.Trie to go out of the same old things writer a letter about what you think of her and maybe a single rose and dinner at a nice resturant just b/c.Make sure to get the resevations before hand and ask her before hand,do you wont to go out to eat later.maybe 2 and half hours before you may wont to give her the rose and say get ready were going out to eat I'll be back in about 2 hours,gives the her time to get dressed up.Do stuff romantic 2 a month.it can be simple just dont burn down the house with the candles,Suffle the dates so its not same thing on the same day,with different things each time,coverd chocolate strawbarrys,simple and good food could be chinese,mexican,indian,or plain KFC but only the the things that she loves too eat. Be open to each other and dont keep each other guesing what the other is feeling your down for what ever reason talk about it and get it out of the way.Cook together play games.Cuddle and watch a movie with popcorn or read a book together that you both would like to read.Think about what starts the fights write them down right after.And then after a week show her the root of whats the fights are about.If its you fix the prob...and for the rest show her both yours and hers in the arguement b/c it would be really stupid if you just showed her pasision in the fight.Communications what keeps couples together and work you fight fix it b/c shes a beautiflull ruby to you take care of her and treasure her.
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reader, Heartbroken-xx  +, writes (3 March 2009):
Sit down with her and have an open dicussion. Dig deeper and see what is causes all your problems, and sort them out..
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