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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:First off, I have a wonderful boyfriend, and I love having sex with him. When I've masturbated, I haven't needed to think of anything sexual or look at anything sexual, because it seemed like everything I thought of (involving a guy or girl) turned me off while doing the said deed. But the other night, I was laying in bed, and I just started imagining my boyfriend giving me oral sex. It made me excited and aroused me, so I reached down and started masturbating. It felt the same as always, but somewhere along the line for some reason I decided to see what would happen if I pictured a girl instead. I imagined a very pretty acquaintance of mine giving me oral sex, and that aroused me more than the thought of my boyfriend. I didn't orgasm to the thought of her or to anything, but it still bothers me that thinking of her tongue on me aroused me more than when I thought of my boyfriend's. Right after, I masturbated again and the same thing happened. I see this girl in school every day, and while I find her very pretty, I don't have a crush on her, nor find myself staring at her or any part of her. I've only ever been attracted to guys my whole life, save for the couple of times I've seen a pretty girl and it aroused me for a minute or two, but I know that that's normal for a girl my age. Could I have been aroused just by thought of doing something kinky and new, or could I be bi?
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reader, kllgunner +, writes (3 March 2009):
 ok well this is normal many girls will fantisize about other girls its fine u shouldnt feel any different but this may be a sine that u are bi just think about that have fun
-madly in love
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2009): [sigh] What's with the labels again?
Observation: you can still be with one person forever, even if you are sexually attracted to more than one gender.
Advice: do whatever you want. If you love your boyfriend, then you love your boyfriend. Continue a relationship with him if you like. There is no right or wrong way to go about this. Ultimately, it's what you want versus what you're forcing yourself into.
Further Observation: labels are unnecessarily complicated things. You are what you are. Period. Aside from being a form of communication, sex incorporate experimentation and trial and error. Being aroused can be anything.
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