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writes:hi guys. I'm really in need of advice. I've been with my girlfriend for five years and I love her with everything I have. Last year we finally decided to move in together and talked about marriage. At first everything went well but then things started to go wrong. We started fighting a lot and not seeing eye to eye with each other which caused us to drift apart. I decided to live at my mum's again and spent less and less time together. At the start off this year my girlfriend decided she couldn't take any more and moved out of our place. That completely shocked me and for a month after I refused to speak to her. Only within the last weeks we have finally spoken again and decided to give things another go. But she didn't hide the fact that she felt my commitment to our relationship with rubbish and that she felt I had taken her for granted. I know I wasn't the best boyfriend in the world. I was selfish at times and to a degree I did take her for granted even if I didn't realise back then. I'm am delighted now that we are giving our relationship another go and that she was honest enough to tell me my bad points, but I'm completely scared of making the same mistakes again cause I know I will lose her for good and I don't want that to happen. I feel scared and very insecure off messing up again. I've never cheated on her but messing up as in making the same mistakes again. Please help me with any suggestions or ideas
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