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writes: There is a woman that I have a good relationship with. We eat together at least once a week. We do other things too. We take turns cooking and the other brings the dessert. Sometimes we feed each other in a playful way. Sometime for dessert I would like to have her instead of something to eat with a fork. Is there a good way to tell her that I want to have sex with her for dessert? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2009): You reminded me of this magazine article I read a couple months ago about a man who would not buy a woman dessert unless he was interested in sleeping with her, because I suppose they are both sensual pleasures.
What you ask is not easy to answer because there is no safe way of asking. You must put yourself out there. If words leave you tongue tied and awkward, you might just be forward enough to kiss her from behind on the neck. I suggest the neck to start because mouth to mouth kissing might be to forward or awkward...she might have to be worked into it a little and the neck is the place to start for that. Go slow and then make your way to her mouth and tell her that you want her.
I can't tell you how she will respond, she might only think of you as a friend. But if I was even slightly interested in a guy and he put those moves on me, he would be pretty hard to turn down.
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reader, maxxie  +, writes (3 March 2009):
 it depends on your intentions with this woman. if it is sexual, just start with kisses, remeber to state your choice in not wanting a relationship. if it isnt just a fling, start showing how you feel
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