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Should I quit my job?

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Question - (3 March 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 3 March 2009)
A age 41-50, anonymous writes:

My wife and me haven't had sex in 6 weeks because I haven't been feeling too well and I have high blood pressure (she knows about it) and it makes me really tired. My high blood is due to my very stressful job. My boss over works me and some other coworkers. My wife have been trying me to get quit because I have been coming home in the worse mood lately.

As for our sex life she puts really sexy outfits for me (she's a part time model and got free clothes sometimes). Since I haven't been really feeling myself I tell her no so I do cuddle her for a bit to keep her happy but it isn't enough and she wants more. She's probably used to me spoiling her in bed. Should I quit my job?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2009):

One easy answer ... YES!

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A male reader, massdestruction3 United States +, writes (3 March 2009):

massdestruction3 agony auntIf you feel you can't continue you should quit the job.. and what's your profession? You might be with one or without, and can your wife benifit the house with her job?

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A female reader, wonderingcat United Kingdom +, writes (3 March 2009):

wonderingcat agony auntYes.

If you can easily get another job, quit this one. No job, no money, is worth having if it gives you physical and psychological pain.

Yes, if your medical bills may be so much that you will have not much left for yourself and your savings after your salary is all spent.

If you know it really is because you are not happy with your job.

No,

If you see a way out in work situation, and that it can be fixed and you get to keep your job.

If jobs are hard to find and you are not eligible for government subsidy.

If your wife then regrets your decision because she becomes the breadwinner for a while.

etc etc etc

Good luck .. and no .. this is not supposed to give you mnore headache .. ;-)

Cat

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