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writes:I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 15 this mounth we have been going out for 3 moenths but my mam dosn't like him (to be honest not a lot of people do) she says he has bad hygiene and she doesn't like his background "he's in a different league to us" I'm not a big fan of his background but the person underneath is really sweet and I like him but everyone is against it cause no one likes him and they don't think we're suited but I would be devastated if I had to break up with him. Am I doing right or am I holding onto something that would never be? Reply to this Question
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reader, loving arms +, writes (3 March 2009):
no-one can tell you the future babe, so it's impossible to say it will or won't breat. As for your guy's background... define background. Do you mean bad things he's done? or things his family have done? If you mean his family background, then he has no control over the family he comes from so can't really take the blame for that. If however no-one likes him because of his negative behaviour, then that's a whole different situation. If his behaviour towards others is the issue then HE has to change to prove to everyone that he's is a nice person. He's young, we are all allowed to make mistakes it's how we change afterwards that should be measured. Tell him about your concerns and how you believe in him and would like him to show others the nice person you see. Good luck babe xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2009): well im in the same situation, like word for word, and i am staying my realationship because im happy for now. yea we might not be together in the future, but who no that u even will have a future? what if u die in a accendient this week?
my point is that u have to live life day by day, meaning if he makes u happy now, then stay with him.
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