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*awthornee
writes:I'm 18 and the other night I was going to have sex with my boyfriend. We were foreplaying before and he got two fingers in me then once we were actually going to have sex he couldn't get in me. It would be my first time and I told me best friend and she said "woww that's really embarrassing" and she meant for me because I was too tight to have sex. Is there something wrong? Why am I sooooo tight? I can't even handle a penis inside me!!! :o
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reader, hawthornee +, writes (3 March 2009):
hawthornee is verified as being by the original poster of the question Heey thanks for all the replys! :) but most of you said lube up. Well I was very wet like no problem there. We didn't need to get more, if anything we needed less haha. And I did givr him a blowjob before and made it wet. And to kllgunner, I don't really want a dildo. Like I don't want anything in here other then fingers or a penis. Maybe after I haev sex I will want a dildo. But I dong wanna be loose!!!! :O
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (3 March 2009):
 The advice from "questionablegrl" is excellent, and indeed, this situation is a very good thing rather than "something wrong." But adequate lubrication, preferably water-based, will help immensely along with relaxation. It is likely that natural lubrication will eventually be plenty, providing your mate gives you plenty of foreplay. Also be patient. In my youth (a long time ago), I remember having to spend a good long time inserting virgins.
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reader, anoms  +, writes (3 March 2009):
 no thers nothing to be embarrassed about, if anything it means you dont sleep around, be proud, no big deal. anyway just wait until you feel right, if you jump right in your clearly going to hert youself, so dont get too excited just build up to it slowly using your/his fingers until your ready, gudluk.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2009): you are ok dont worry. same thing happened kind ofhappened to me. sometimes you have to get yourself used to it. ive heard that the best way is to tell him to finger you a couple times before and do it for a while then your body will get used to it. he does need to try though to put it in or he wont make it in. it will hurt though i tell you that
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reader, kllgunner +, writes (3 March 2009):
 ok well wat u need to do is relax and massage urself and ull loosin up ull eventually get it in the mean time go get a dildo and push it in slowly and keep doing that it will eventually loosin up good luck and use a condom.
-madly in love
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