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writes:Hello,I just got out of a 2 year relationship. The guy I was with claimed to truly be in love with me and even proposed to me this past October. We have gone through ALOT during those 2 years. 2 weeks ago we broke up for 3 days and he tells me that I'm the one and professes his love for me. Then 2 days ago we get into a MAJOR argument and he takes it all back and says that he needs his space. The argument was basically about the fact that he feels as though he has truly messed up in the relationship and now that he's trying to fix things nothing he feels as though he does is making it any better. i have told him time and time again that it will take time to get us back on the right track and it's hard for me to trust him right now. (That's the nice version, the argument ended up ALOT more nasty then that!!) I said ok just come and get your things.He lives in the same apartment building as me and even on the same floor but for the last 2 days he kept making excuses about coming to get his belongings. So I finally decided to leave him alone and mail his stuff to him. During our relationship we have been closer than close to each other but there was cheating that went on earlier in the relationship done by him not me. This is a guy who has and had alot of options but I have been his only girlfriend and the only one he has ever brought around his family. I'm wondering if anyone thinks that he will ever call me to reconcile or will he leave me alone forever? I truly love him but I REFUSE to call him since he said he needed space. So I really want to know if you guys think he will ever attempt to contact me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2009): think we aren't psychic enough to know what he will do.
However in your circumstances i would say look we obviously care about each other - why don't we havea break for 1 month - no contact then get together and see if we have let the dust settled. Then start again, slowly e.g. go for a date (s) etc. slowly is the key word...
Just a thought.
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reader, Serenity1 +, writes (4 March 2009):
 he'll call you. trust me. they always do. i admire the fact that you REFUSE to call him. keep it up! don't call him whatever you do. he'll then think you are wide open for him. let him call you. im actually going through the same and it's taking alot out of me to not call him but i've realized if he wanted to talk to me he'd call. so i'll wait, but you know what when he does call i will not be so available to him, and will play very naushilant, like i don't even miss him.
don't even worry he'll call, besides his things are at your house.
the last thing i want you to do is call him and he's accompanied by someone else. don't do it to yourself. let him call you!
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