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writes: i feel like crap right now!!!!! im in a terrible situattion!! so i've been going out with my gf for a little over a year and i absolutely adore..i cant live without her, we do every single thing together a we get along so great....we're perfect!! we make each other laugh/...she's my sunshine whe im down she brightens my day...but now we've hit a huge bump in the road.... she dumped me today, and she's moving all the way to california, i was so heartbroken!! i still cant beleive it!!! i dont know what im gonna do without her, i feel like i wont be able do get on in life....i know that you guys are gonna say that im too young to know what love is, but can sya we had that, loved her, and she loved me.. and it's not about sex either, we weren't even thinking of that she hasn't even left yet and i miss her already...i feel ike im dying inside like my heart just got ripped out of my chest... i've been depressed all day, i wouldn't talk to anyone, i wouldn't even answer the teacher's questions or talk to my friends, as im writing this im crying my heart out on the keyboard and i feel like such a wuss!! i dont know how im gonna get over her this depression is gonna last for a long time, i already know it..she's my 1'st relationship and i love her to death, i'd do anything for her!!! what can i do to get over this and move on?? i dont think i can servive this by myself?? please help?? im sorry this is so long thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2009): yo bro dont even worry about it man what does not kill can only make your stronger truss me man theres a girl out there just for you shes not the one.....move on man ....*uck it dont waste your life getting sad and shit ....get somewhere far in life make it big so that when she sees you a few years down the road she ll feel dumb for leaving such a talented person....dont stress bro i know how you feel!....
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank you to everyone who answered....i really appriciate it
well she left today, and i'll never see her again, we said our goodbyes, cried, and hugged it out before she left..it's gonna be a long time for a smile to appeare on my face again....
i told my close friends about it (male and female), and they are kinda supporting and really want to help,, they're always trying to convince me into having funn with them like going to the fair
but i feel like i need some alone time right now, i can tdeal with anything happy, it only reminds me of her
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2009): i feel ya...try to keep yourself busy with job or people activities.the first week is the worst but you will survive.cry if you have to cry it helps greatly.console with family and really close friends only.find the strength and soul to keep moving forward during this time,don't even think of giving up!!fight,fight it's what everybody wants to see happen.family will listen and help put you back together.i prayed for strength and hope a lot.try to keep yourself busy..everyday you wake up is a day closer to happiness!!
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (3 March 2009):
 If she is moving away then I'm afraid there is not much you can do apart from accept the situation.
There is no tried and tested way to move on, everyone is different and they will all hurt (and heal again) in different ways.
There is nothing wrong with feeling the way you do right now, it is only natural to feel like that when your first love has left you. And now for the good old cliche, time is a healer. It sounds rubbish, and wont help you one bit but in time the pain will die down and you will start to get over her.
Allow yourself to be upset, cry as much as you want. Get it all out of your system as holding in the emotions will just make it worse. Eventually there will be no more tears to cry and you will start to get back on track with your life. You are stronger than this and you need to keep telling yourself you can get through this, even though every day it will hurt like hell when you wake up and realise she has gone, that pain will get a little easier every day.
Stay strong and good luck!
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reader, n00dl35 +, writes (3 March 2009):
 you just gotta accept it and move on.. relationships will come and go and you just have to deal with what ever happens happens. it'll take time.. trust me. but you can do it. there's other girls out there that you will share this same feeling with. good luck
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reader, andrew loves hali +, writes (3 March 2009):
 thats whats happening to me and it is hard sometimes you feel like you just want to die. everyone says keep yourself busy or hang out with your friends but everything you dont reminds you of her right? its hard and i dont think there is something you can do. just let time take its place and see what happens. i wish the best of luck to you man i hope your guna get through this i know it hurts SSSSOOOO bad keep me updated if you can. best of luck andrew
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