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writes:I like a girl and we talk almost every day. she knows i like her but she says she dont want a boyfriend right now.how should i approach this? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2009): When a girl says "i dont want a boyfriend right now" it means one of two things. #1. She doesnt like you. I doubt shes talking to you on the phone regularly if thats the case. Unless...a) your giving her money or b) your spending money on her. Ex: dinners, movies, clothes, letting her drive your car, picking up her dry cleaning...etc YOU ANSWER YES TO A) OR B)? YOU MIGHT BE GETTING PLAYED...my advise_ RUN!!// #2 she just wants you as a...partner..uh.. Cut buddy... A friend with benefits. ;) we are living in the age of the independant women my friend. Sometimes with a 18- 21 yr old womans schedule (work and school) among other reasons, we just dont want to make time for a real relationship. She feels comfortable w/you, she may be sexualy attracted to you, but doesnt have the time to put into a relationship". Maybe your just not her type, but...she still thinks your hot. my advise_if you can handle a "no strings attached" situation with her, stop bringing up the boyfriend thing and make a move.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2009): That's a line/excuse girls use when they like you but not enough to be in a relationship with you. Maybe she's not attracted to you, and she just wants to be friends.
For the most part, if you like a person you like them, all this let's just be friends is just a polite rejection.
I hung out with a guy for over 3months, slept in the same bed, spent weekends together, even undressed infront of you. I wasn't attracted to him, just like him as a guy friend and also enjoyed the male companionship. I'm not proud of it. I wish I had just told him the truth. His friends finally explained it to him, coz they could see it. He never spoke to me.
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