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Do I throw all caution to the wind and go for it?

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Question - (3 March 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 3 March 2009)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

Is it to good to be true.............

Recently I met a man who is in the process of getting divorced and we have been getting to know each other.

Anyhow, we work together and spend a lot of time talking daily. Also, have seen each other outside work for a few months. Due to the economy I am thinking of giving up my home and starting over in my home town where I have a free place to live near my parents but in order to work I'd have to drive approx. 3 hours daily! My issue is; this man I have known for a short while has asked me if I'd like to move west where he has a job waiting (over 100,000) year and I could just do what I liked, work or not he didn't care. This sounds really good but..... I want to ask what you all think?

I do Love him and he said he wants to spend the rest of his life with me but I don't want to ditch everything and end up stuck out west, alone and broke.

My heart tells me to go for it!

I know most girls would kill for a man like him but I'm a little chicken and I really need a clear outside view of the situation. Thank you :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2009):

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I'd like to thank you for the wise advice and I will for sure think long and hard before doing anything foolish.

If he asks me to mary him would your answer change? Thanks again :)

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