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30-35,
anonymous
writes: I wish my boyfriend would try more foreplay when we are in bed. Can you suggest ways of slowing him down and suggesting he does more foreplay? What are some foreplay things we can do?Is suggesting that he lick my body with his tongue a good idea? Is it a good idea for me to lick his body?
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (3 March 2009):
 "Honey, what is the rush? I'm glad you are so turned that you want to race through things. I do not want to race through things, however, because it takes me longer to get all excited. Let's fool around some more. I mean, you want me to be happy with sex too, don't you?"
Sandra Bullock said that women are like ovens. We need 5 to 15 minutes to warm up.
Just TALK to him. If you're having sex with him, you are being very intimate. If you can't talk to him, then there's something wrong here! Your pleasure and enjoyment is just as important as his is, do NOT feel guilty or shy about expecting equal consideration.
Good luck!
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reader, Tomas +, writes (3 March 2009):
tie down +1
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reader, 198419were  +, writes (3 March 2009):
whipped cream/strawberries/ice chocolate will help him get into exploring different parts of you... more slowly...you can also tie him down and tease him a lot.. he might then realise how exciting it is to have lengthy foreplay (perhaps even a blindfold as well)give it a go... it's fun!
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