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We are constantly doing things for each other but are we actually good for each other long-term?

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Question - (3 March 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 2 April 2009)
A male United States age , anonymous writes:

we share, we give, we care, but she is not interested in me.........all of the above attracts me to her. i'm very much like that. she is 42, never married, and has a teenage daughter at home. i'm 63 but most people tell me i look like 50. i'm very young at heart. we've known each other for 4 months. we spend alot of time together and i feel very comfortable being with her. she feels the same as well. i have been married before and single now. on v-day she decided to spend the day with her ex-boyfriend's parents. her ex lives in a different state but they still talk on the phone. she wants to take a trip to florida and wants her ex or me to go with her. she feels all women are bitches and has more male friends. a month ago we slept together and i made my sexual advances. i was rejected! she told me that maybe some day we will getting on. we are constantly doing and buying things for each other. are we good for each other longterm?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2009):

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Thank you Gina,

It seems thats what has taken place here. Why should she end our friendship when all she had to do is play a game and let me end it. I'm very much a man of my word and she knew that. There is on place for liers in my list of friends. Thanks again.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2009):

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UPDATE: A week before V-Day she told me she was going to start lying to me. I told her don't lie to me because our friendship will either end or I will distant myself from it. Four weeks ago I caught her in a lie and I ended our close friendship. She knew I am a very honest person and do not trust people that lie to me. I'm confused, Why did she start lying to me?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2009):

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Thank you Gina. I'll wait and see if our friendship goes further than just good friends.

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