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male
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41-50,
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writes:Hi folks. This is quite a long story so please be patient. Thank you. About two years ago, I lost my job. It was just one of those things. Cut backs etc. I was worried about how long it would be before I found another job, as the bills won't pay themselves, and a friend of mine joked that I should become a male escort. Seeing as I am quite tall and I work out alot, I decided to look in to becoming one. I found a company that has pretty high standards and caters to the upper class, mostly rich mature women and men. I was told that they do not encourage their escorts to sleep with the clients but if they want to then that's their choice. So, I joined knowing that I wouldn't be required to sleep with anyone and I don't have to use my real name.It was going really well. A lot of mature ladies were booking me to accompany them to functions etc. I can earn £600 a night. One of the ladies started to book me on a regular basis. I think it was the eight time of booking me, I had gotten to know her a little and, for a forty-five year old, she was extremely sexy. I walked her to her hotel room after accompanying her to a dinner. She asked me if I wanted to come in for a drink so I did. After sitting down and talking for a while it became clear what she was interested in. I told her outright that I was simply a companion and I did not provide any extra services. She then told me that she would pay me £300 to sleep with her. Against my better judgment, I did. Before you ask, I did use protection.So, she started booking me every weekend to accompany her to functions and dinners, then paying me extra to sleep with her afterwards. She started getting more adventurous, she wanted me to give and receive oral, she wanted to receive anal etc. I agreed to everything she wanted, I was being paid for it after all. Then one night she was being a little rough and at the point that I started to cum the condom split and naturally that meant that I had cum inside her. She said that I should worry as she will take the morning after pill the next day just to be on the safe side. I also had myself tested for any infections that I may have received due to the condom breaking. I was clear. That was the last I heard from her until about seven months after the incident I received an envelope from her through the escort agency. It contained a scan picture of a baby and a letter explaining she had never had children and it was not her intention to become pregnant but she felt that if anything was to come from what happened then this is what she wants. It also contained her phone number. At the time I was horrified. This lady was going to have my baby. For about two months, I didn't call. But in the end I did. I wasn't mad at her as it was an accident but she should have contacted me earlier so we could have discussed the situation. When she went in to labour I was there for the birth and thus our daughter was born. She's the most beautiful thing in the world and if I could go back and change anything I wouldn't. I've always been there for our daughter and we both provide for her. I'm still in the escort business though but I certainly do not sleep with any of the clients. I have learned what can happen if things go wrong. I was round at the house, where my daughter lives, one night last week. We ended up discussing the possiblity of a relationship. We know we both find each other sexually attractive and we get on so we didn't rule it out. We agreed that I would stay over that weekend so I could see more of my daughter and we can talk things through properly. So I stayed the weekend. During the weekend, we dinner and talked. But one thing started to lead to another and we ended up having sex. What I'm trying to say is that could a relationship with her work? She's only 47 now and I'm nearly 30. She looks fantastic and we get on great. She said she would have no problems with me continuing to be an escort as long as I didn't sleep with any of the clients, which I wouldn't anyway. But would we be doing it for the wrong reasons or should we give it a go?
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reader, OmegaXF  +, writes (3 March 2009):
 You have no excuse not to be with her
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reader, natasia +, writes (3 March 2009):
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I think being together for your baby, and because you get on great, and find each other v sexy - well, these sound like the best reasons to be together!! Can't think of many better ones!
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reader, natasia +, writes (3 March 2009):
Well, I think it sounds like a match made in heaven, in many ways.
Checklist:
- Do you find each other highly desirable? Yes.
- Do you have an amazing love life and sex dynamic? Yes.
- Do you get on well? Yes.
- Do you treat each other with respect? Yes. I think this has been proved. She has ALWAYS given you choices, and you have never over-stepped any boundaries.
- Do you have any other reasons to be together? Yes. An amazing daughter, and the chance of giving her the gift of having her two loving parents bring her up together.
- Anything else? Yes. She is financially independent, and so are you - so nobody is taking advantage of anyone.
Age? OK. Yes, it would be even more perfect if she were a bit younger, but all the things that matter - who she is, her sex appeal, and how well she keeps herself in shape - are all getting 10 out of 10, so I don't think you should let this bother you at all.
I know this is a cliche, but I know lots of women with guys who are at least 16 yrs older than them, and nobody says anything. If you love her and she's in great shape, and has just had yr baby ... wow. Don't let that hold you back. Don't.
Should now confess that I am biased, as have an 11-month old daughter with a guy nearly 9 years younger than me. But whereas my situation is really quite problematic, yours sounds perfect! OK, I know what you mean about age, I really do (having previously had a relationship with a guy 16 yrs older than me!!!!), but I think you should give it a go. She sounds like a pragmatic woman. She will cope. I think you will have many good years bringing up yr daughter. And you aren't missing out. In some cultures they say women only get more beautiful as they get older ... : )
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