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writes:I am a college student and there is this boy I recently became interested in. Last week, he had asked me to stop by and see him at work to give him some music he wanted. I saw him and we ended up talking for a while. Before I left, he asked for my number and I gave it to him. He them told me to call him later in the week to see if we could maybe hang out or go to a party together over the weekend. I called him on Friday night and we and some other people went out to a friend’s house and hung out which was fun. All of us then went another party. After that party, some of us went to this guys house (the one I am interested in). We hung out there for some time and other people stayed around as well. When it got really late, everybody left except for the roommates and I ended up sleeping over with him. Nothing sexual happened while I was there. The next morning, he asked me if I was doing anything that night (Saturday). I said no, and he told me to call him again to hang out. So I did and that night he had a party at his place and again, I ended up sleeping over. It was the same deal as Friday night. Then on Sunday, when he drove me back, I told him I would stop by to see him tomorrow (Tuesday) at work just to say hi, but now I can’t. Also, he was kind of sick over the weekend and had told me he hoped he had not gotten me sick and I told him no. But then he asked if he had kissed me, which he hadn’t and I said no. It seems as though he maybe wanted to kiss me but he didn’t because he didn’t want to get me sick. I am interested In knowing if this guy likes me or is maybe interested in me? I can’t tell.
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reader, wonderingcat  +, writes (3 March 2009):
 OK Tux, point taken. Thanks :-)
And apologies to the OP :-)
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reader, tux +, writes (3 March 2009):
 Don't be so hard on her writing style. Not everyone is an English major, nor are we writing term papers that are being graded here.. although a lot of your tips, would help us understand fully what is being asked.
I would say that he might be interested in you if in fact he was actually sick.You should just ask him to hang out with you alone and see where it goes from there. I think he'd say yes.
As far as the partying, it sounds like a lot of alcohol is involved considering he didn't know if he kissed you or not. You may want to be careful with these parties. Don't go overboard.
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reader, wonderingcat +, writes (3 March 2009):
First of all, you need to enlighten us on your age. It is listed here as 10-12 yo. Is that your mental age or your biological age?
Secondly, do you remember your grammar and literature teacher(s)? A good "story teller" would have separate paragraphs to state separate issues, or at least to differentiate the focus of each.
I am sorry, but if you are in college and write like you did here, I tend to think that you are a child prodigy in college.
If you are interested in having him as a boyfriend, just ask him, The worst he can say is no. You can still hang out and have fun with him anyways, he sounds really nice.
Cat
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