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writes: My boyfriend and I have been dating for about two years. We are both seniors in high school. We are going to be going to different colleges I don’t know what that means to our relationship. It is not that we don’t have something special because we do. Sometimes it seems that people go different ways. The issue that I am writing about is that my boyfriend says he would really like to make love to me. He says that would be something special for him before we both end up at college. In some ways I want the same thing and want him to be happy. I am thinking that if it is the correct thing to do. We do have a great relationship and are in love.We have not seen each other naked yet. Any tips for getting each other naked? How will I know that he will like my naked body? I have heard that making love/having sex is fun. What makes it fun and good? How can I make it good for both of us? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2009): Sex won't get a man (not for any time outside the bedroom anyway) and it won't keep a man either. It has mental effects on women that can hook you into him a lot harder than you already are. If this is indeed the tail end of a relationship then it could be trouble to start having sex with him now.
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reader, jessica04  +, writes (3 March 2009):
 Have things ready at hand like the condom you should be using, a glass of water (sex can run you out of breath!) and even a towel for you to lay on in case you bleed a bit (not sure if your hymen is torn already for some other reason).
Really, the fact that you two feel so close to each other and care about each other puts you way ahead of the game.
Just take your time, and invest in some lube since you might be a bit too nervous to 'supply' your own. Most stores with a pharmacy sell some.
If you are a little self conscious, you can dim the lights, or only have a closet light on or something. I hate sex in bright light, personally. Plus it can be fun and cute to fumble around a bit with each other in the dark.
Please be safe and use protection, and just relax and have some fun. Key words: SAFETY, RELAX
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reader, tux +, writes (3 March 2009):
 Tips for getting each other naked? Take off your clothes..
But seriously, the fun way is to just make out... kiss, hug, caress each other's bodies and watch as each piece of clothing mysteriously starts to come off.
As far as making love/having sex being fun.. it can be... although it can come with its own set of problems, please think it over and make sure you are ready. Not only do you need to worry about getting pregnant or catching a disease, there are also mental ramifications as well.. You may find the two of you grow farther apart because the chase for sex is over. Just becareful what you wish for, and do it when you are fully ready.
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