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My ex husband and I are wanting to try again... How do I break this to my boyfriend?

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Question - (3 March 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 3 March 2009)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I was married for eleven years and now have been divorced from him for just a little over year, and I have been dating a guy for a year.  I don't want to hurt the guy that I have been seeing, but I have been having a constant host of feelings, thoughts, emotions, dreams, etc. about my ex husband and I just told him how I felt and he feels the same way.  We both want to try again.  Again, I don't want to hurt the guy I have been dating, but I know there is no way around that. Can you give me some advice on what I should do or how to approach this situation? ThanksAnnTexas

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A female reader, KickRox United States +, writes (3 March 2009):

KickRox agony auntAlso, after he gets over the hurt..He'll be thankful for your honesty.

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A female reader, jessica04 United States +, writes (3 March 2009):

jessica04 agony auntSit down with him and talk to him about everything. He deserves to know where he stands with you.

After he gets over the hurt, he will ultimately be thankful that you were open and honest with him. Guys don't take kindly to being strung around, and he will most likely be very thankful that you let him go before he could get really hurt.

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A female reader, KickRox United States +, writes (3 March 2009):

KickRox agony auntWell there is no easy way to tell him. Just sit him down and tell him what you just told us...That you care about him and the last thing you want to do is hurt him. But you still have strong feelings for your ex-husband and want to give it a try! That you want to be honest with him and not end up hurting him.

It's best that you just come right out and tell him as soon as possible before he asks you what's wrong? Or even worse..finds out on his own.

He should be understanding. And let you walk away to give love another try!

Keep me posted. And hope I've been of help.

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