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writes:I don't like talking to people about my problems so this is my only option left. I'm hurting. I can't even think about anything. Me and my boyfriend broke up about a month ago and I'm still not over it. He wanted a break but I said a relationship or nothing. While we weren't going out we hooked up. He came crying back to me a couple weeks ago but I held my own and stood strong and told him he messed it up and I wasn't going to take him back. But I knew all I wanted was him back but I couldn't do that. Now I've been talking to one of his friends and he found out and now apparently he's moved on. And I know the girl. I never really liked her and I just can't imagine her taking my place. It hurts me so much and I just can't take it. He doesn't even talk to me and doesn't want anything to do with me I guess. I hate this. I can't get over it and I wont. And I've stopped liking the other kid and I just keep thinking about my ex.. I don't know what else to do but I can't keep living like this and being hurt. Any help would be greatly appreciated. I'm a wreck. Thanks.
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reader, elibubs  +, writes (3 March 2009):
hi trying to think back to being 13-15 a long time ago to give u my best advice. Heartache hurts and youve just got to work thru it. Cry a little cry a lot laugh about the madness of it spoil yourself go out with friends get fit occupy yourself cry some more. Work thru the pain and I promise one morning u will wake up and be a better person for the experience - all goes towards making u charachterful and special and understanding and kind - strong and wise. Its not a bad thing. Don't waste too much time on him but do invest in you. Remember u will kiss a lot of frogs before u meet your prince and he was the first toady! Good luck and carry on being beautiful! X
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2009): You are in EXACTLY the same position as me.
Broke up a month ago, he comes crying back, you say no even though it kills you, and now he's apparently moved on.
Everyone tells me to try to move on, date someone else...
But I just cant do it.
Good luck
xx
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reader, Girlaloud +, writes (3 March 2009):
Listen sweetie,You are too young to be worried about this. You WILL move on.trust me! Right now you have to hang with friends and not show this guy any interest wat so ever. Chances are he will come crawling back and by that time you aint gonna be interested! best of luck :) chin up.
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