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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have been with my fiance for a year so far. Things haven't been going well because I feel like I still love my ex. I had recently started talking to my ex online and now I miss him even more and I want to be with him. I love my fiance but I love my ex as well. My fiance wants to get married within less than 2 years and have kids and so on. My ex is in love with me and wants me back but now the problem is choosing.. should I stay with my fiance or go back with my ex? I was with my ex for over a year and he was my first love my first evreything and I lost my virginity with him. We went through so many experiences together, but I feel like my ex is the one but I don't know what to do about my fiance because I don't want to hurt his feelings. I told him I have been thinking about my ex and I think I still love him and he went crazy and we broke up but we are back together. He is the man your mother and family would want you to marry but my heart says I need my ex. I will be ok with my fiance if I marry him but I would still love my ex and my ex still didn't finish school but my fiance has a college degree. My fiance has all the good qualities and I love him but my ex still has my heart and I love him too. What should I do?
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reader, should not be +, writes (13 March 2009):
first you need ask yourself, between you and your ex who wants to break up first? how do you feel after you break up? and who come to save you when you are broken heart. be honest, i used to break up and i know exactly how it feel? on other person can make me happy and that person is the recent one, the ex is the ex consider who will make you feel comfort with and can live with you forever. wish you have the right decision.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2009): you need to really think about who you'll be happy with and who you can build your life with. If your ex is the type of a person that can be there for you emotionally and try to work things out with you at all times (this means good and bad) then maybe you should give it another shot instead of making hasty decisions based on what is "good" for you by the society standards. After all, you will be hurting yourself and your fiancee if you are not honest with this issue. If you get married and you still love your ex, is it fair to your current fiancee? Don't you think he'd deserve better than that? I would say you got to think this over and think it over hard and if your heart wants your ex, you need to take a leap of faith.
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reader, Ashleyjoe +, writes (3 March 2009):
 Stay with you fiance,the feeling for your ex.will pass, he is just sweet talkin you! Your fiance sounds like a very good man and very good soon to be husband. you should continue to let your fiance know how you feel about you ex..though.
best of luck
AShley
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