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First Date Sex.... Now he's backed off?

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Question - (3 March 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 4 March 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hey everyone...well i am 18 years old and i have met a 38 year old man who i am rather besotted with ....i've only met him once in real life but have been talking to him on the net for a few months now ..but we spent the whole day together and he was very nice to me we went out for dinner etc and then we went back to mine. against both our better judgements we ended up having sex...which he said although he hadnt wanted to do on our first date he was glad that we did ...however since then we havent really spoken....i dont know what to do ...i mean he told me the night after that he really likes me and im his kinda girl but he wants to take it slow cos he doesnt want either of us to get hurt.....please no responses telling me hes too old ...i am into older men and cannot help it so ..i just want a lil bit of advice thanks x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2009):

i know i had sex too soon but i was sure to say to him that i am not a whore ....he told me that he understood that...because ladies and gentlemen i'm not ....

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (3 March 2009):

eyeswideopen agony auntHe got what he wanted, pure and simple. If (and that's a BIG "if") he does come sniffing around again DO NOT HAVE SEX. If he stays interested without the sex then maybe you have a glimmer of hope.

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A female reader, natasia United Kingdom +, writes (3 March 2009):

natasia agony auntI think he feels bad - that you are so much younger - and feels maybe he shouldn't do it.

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