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reader, No_Nonsense  +, writes (4 March 2009):
 Ok, look. There are some things you can give the benefit of the doubt about, or at least hear the guy out before jumping to conclusions. BUT this this not one of those times!!!! You found another girl's panties in his glove compartment! Another girl's!
Did you tell him about it?
This is not up for discussion with him, there's really nothing he can say to get out of this one. So just throw them at him and tell him it's OVER!
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reader, natasia  +, writes (3 March 2009):
 ask whose they were. sure he doesn't have a secret fetish?!
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reader, KickRox  +, writes (3 March 2009):
 Huh? Sooooo, what did you tell him? I'm thinking you told him to shove those panties up his bum right?!? Give him his walking papers..Now!
Ok, and what did he say after you saw the panties?
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (3 March 2009):
 I know this won't be much help right now, but someday, you'll be able to tell this story to your friends and laugh at what an idiot he was. THIS is a classic.
I'm sorry you have to find out he's an jerk, but better now than later. It'll be entertaining to find out what kind of excuse he comes up with.
Be strong. And good for you for using condoms.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (3 March 2009):
 Why did I write right quite? What does that even mean? I mean right QUICK!!!! A you should make him eat those panties (unless he's into that kind of thing, in which case you should burn them in front of him).
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (3 March 2009):
I sure hope you dumped him right quite!!!
What a jerk!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2009): How long have you been together? Have you asked him about the panties?
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reader, jessica04 +, writes (3 March 2009):
 Tried? So does that mean you dumped him or just gave him the cold shoulder that night?
Shove those panties in his ear and leave the jerk.
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