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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi hello good day and so on.I have a problem. I am in love with this girl and I have no idea why! It started about a year ago when we were in the same class. I just ended up looking at here in all the classes we had together. I don't know why I fell in love with her, because it is not like I really talked with her a lot. In fact I did not talk to her at all. Also, she was pretty unaware of my fascination with her, or me in general, so any real conversations starting on her behalf were out of the question. And because I am fairly shy and not too good at talking with the opposite sex, I ended up just looking at her, and actually falling deeper in love.About half a year after I noticed that I was really in love with her, we both started high school (or something remotly similare in Norway) in separate schools. This you would think was going to stop this crush, perhaps I would even fall in love with someone else, but NO! It stayed exactly the same. Although I have only seen her like three times since we were in the same class, and not spoken to her once for the same amount of time, I still can not stop thinking about her!I don't really know what I am asking. I have not told anyone about this, because as I mentioned I am quit shy, so this might be a bit about just telling it to someone. I guess I would like to know how I might manage to "forget" her. But that is also something I do not really know if I want. It would certainly make things easier, but I would much rather be with her. This is ofcourse something none of you can help me with, as you dont know anything about me (exept that I am in love) or about her (exept I am in love with her), but you never know, maybe you can tell me what to do there as well, tell me what could help me get into contact with her.That however I doubt. I am pretty much set on having to forget about her, so please help me there if you can. I have sort of tried to find things off the internet, but the "guides" there are made for those who want to forget their ex'es. They are told to get ridd of anything that might remind them of their ex, but I own no such thing. The only thing reminding me of her is pretty much myself and those rare occasions when I see her.I hope the question did not get too long. As I wrote, I have not told this to anyone, and might just want to get things off my chest. I also hope you might be able to help me. Anything will do, the smallest thing might be what sets me free of this feeling. Thank you =)
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reader, mace  +, writes (4 March 2009):
 woo dude its an incredable feeling is it not sort of a forrbiden fruit to the shy guy ill get this out the way sorry. you are still young and have a lot of things to learn about yourself and shyness should not stop you from doing enything you want dude why try and forget just get a pice of paper and write all the things you like about her and what you whould like to her say even just saying hello once in a while is good and find out what she is in to if she likes you she will let you know and if she doent she has lost out never give up dude and shyness is just a thing in your head give her time to see the real you
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