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*rokenin2
writes:I have just recently broken up with my partner. We were together for about 11months and it was going so well. We had our arguements like most couples, usually about him working so much and us not spending enough time together. He said he want space. We broke up and have spent 2 weeks apart. He still comes to see me, and hugs me and also helps with my bills as i am a little far behind with them. I love him, and he said he did love me but is confused. His family liked me, my family liked him. No real problems. I also found out that he had been texting a girl (whom he has not met) sexual things and they were saved in his SAVED BOX on his mobile. I want him back but i don't know what to do, and whether i should as the trust is gone now after seeing those texts. I was heart broken to begin with and i am now in a place where i still love him but not teary when i see him. Someone help please.
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reader, Brokenin2 +, writes (24 June 2009):
Brokenin2 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionbut this so called girl he met online is like over 50miles away. they met on bebo. I'm just more confused knowing he'd done this. I'm glad I know but in a way it makes life harder.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (24 June 2009):
 I don't think he is as committed to you as you were to him. He wants his cake and eat it too. That being you and whomever he is sending texts too.
I would let him go. Sorry.
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reader, Brokenin2 +, writes (24 June 2009):
Brokenin2 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionoh and when he had been texting sexual things to this girl it was 2days after we broke up, but i know he had txt her before but hadnt seen what was sent. Also when i spoke to him about it he said he hadn't replied although there were alot and some were obvious responses to something he'd said. I know i shouldn't have gone through his phone but i was in a bad place and i have low confiedence and self esteem. If he cared for me he wouldn't have done this 2 days after breaking up. Also we are having a talk 2moro night about what happened and if it could be given another shot (depending on how he feels)
Thanks
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reader, Brokenin2 +, writes (24 June 2009):
Brokenin2 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionoh and when he had been texting sexual things to this girl it was 2days after we broke up, but i know he had txt her before but hadnt seen what was sent. Also when i spoke to him about it he said he hadn't replied although there were alot and some were obvious responses to something he'd said. I know i shouldn't have gone through his phone but i was in a bad place and i have low confiedence and self esteem. If he cared for me he wouldn't have done this 2 days after breaking up. Also we are having a talk 2moro night about what happened and if it could be given another shot (depending on how he feels)
Thanks
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