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*rokenheartsyd
writes:I met a girl about 9 months ago she had a boyfriend for about 7 years and she said that he was her first and only boyfriend. Anyway as time moved on she told me that she love me and that made me feel good because I had no one in my life, but she also told me she love him too.Now to make a long story short a few months ago she made up her mind after she try to breakup with me and went back to him that she wants to be with me. So she once again told me that it was over for him and her. I believe her so I went with her on this.Sometimes about 2 weeks ago I made a joke what went wrong well to me it did, I ASK HER IF I AM TAKING UP TOO MUCH OF HER TIME, OR IF SHE MIND IF I SPEND MORE TIME WITH HER. Her answer disturb me she said IT DEPENDS. I am 37 she is 24. I wonder if the age makes a difference. anyway last week she was off from work so I went to visit her at home. moments later I notice it same like she was keeping the phone far away from where we was but I said nothing to her about it.It was strange that their house have about 9 cordless phones and she has to leave the room each time to answer it. But I said thing now God is about to turn this around. I ask her to lend me the phone and she did after talking on it for a few minutes I hang up shortly after that it rang again.She answered it sitting next to me and I heard a man voice. she ask told him she can't talk right now then she said I cant talk maybe later then she said I mean I have to go. And she hang up I felt wrong and used because why would she say I can't talk right now to her ex who we all know is still trying to get her back.Moments later I went outside because I knew he was coming. just as I stand outside there comes his car. he came out and stand next to me without saying a word so I went inside to tell her he was outside but I couldnt find her anywhere. Until I look in the back of the yard I saw that she was hiding to me.Anyway they talk and he leave but I remain hurt, how can I ever fully trust this girl again? I am her second boyfriend what can I do about this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2009): Don't settle for less like the one with this girl. You deserve much better than this. She will take you for granted knowing you are too much in love with her and is still willing to be with her in spite of her continues communication with her ex.Think well. This is a disrespect to you. You are of high value and can't be just a second choice or number 2. I suggest break up with her so she will realise what she lost.
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (24 June 2009):
 Dump her! End this relationship as she will never be fully commited to you! X
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