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writes: I have been dating this girl for a littke over a month. At first we would spend hours on the phone at a time. Now it is more like 30 minutes at a time and once a day. We also use to text a lot now she dosn't always reply. It has been a while since I dated so is this normal or is this a sign she wants to break up?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2009): your best bet is just to go out with her and check if she's still interested. people get bored easily spcecially when the relationship has lost its appeal but just go out with her\, see if she's affectionate towards you.
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reader, worried71 +, writes (24 June 2009):
worried71 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI would like to thank those who answwerd my question. She just got done moving back into her parents house, due to her families medical issues, and in the middle of 1 buisness trip across the country, followed up by a reunion in another state. All before the forth of July weekend in which we have plans to get away for that weekend. That she has not canceled yet. So maybe I am just worried gor nothing.
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (24 June 2009):
With time, every relationships lust fades. Lust shouldn't fade this soon though, its still the start of a relationship. Check with her and see if she's ok, see if she has any problems or any stress outside of your relationship. You may find some underlying issues she has which don't involve you, if she claims to be fine then it is likely that she has lost interest in you and you may want to end it before she does. X
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reader, That Fragile Capricorn +, writes (24 June 2009):
You never really know what could be going on with her. Maye she needs some time to think. But you should definitely get together and talk. Just casually what's going on in her life and why all of a sudden there's a slow on the conversation. The best thing to do is talk to her, don't assume things, or interrupt her. Just talk it out.
Good luck sweetie.
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