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writes:I've been with my bf for 6 months now, a week ago after we were fooling around and he fingered me I bled a little tiny bit - prob my hymen a little scratched or a little broken - Ii didnt tell him till 2 days we were in bed and he asked me if I still want to break my hymen - I said I did want to before but he wouldn't do it - I told him about what happened and he just got up, got dressed and went outside, we sat on the sofa doing nothing then he hugged me a lot and kept on telling me how much he loves me and that was it, we didnt do anything until we left to go out which is not normal. We normally would fool around all the time we are indoors.. is he feeling guilty ! or like regretting things or what? Please keep in mind that I'm from rather a conservative country and family and girls breaking their hymens or even kissing before marriage is a no no.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni don't plan to marry him or anyone at this point , and no he is not with someone else or anyting like that , we aretogether and the whole - forever together - thing has been a problem a little , as i cant promise it and he wants it i guess i dont know . i dont believe in these culture beliefs and he knows it but my familly does though ..
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (24 June 2009):
 I think he feels guilty, because he "hurt" you (as in made you bleed) that and if your culture dictate that you stay a virgin til marriage he kinda "broke" your value as a pure bride.
It's a big responsibility. Do you plan to marry him? Or is he supposed to maybe marry someone else?
There are more questions then answers from me I'm sorry.
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