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writes:Im the type of person who dont fall inlove easy, ive never had a long relationship and never fallen in love with a guy. My problem is im inlove with my bestfriends. I known her since she was 3 and grown up with her always admired her and protected her and really loved her since i can remember she means alot to me, when she dated an ex of mine id never been so hurt before in my life but i forgave her, how couldnt i?.. Second girl i known her for years and been inseperable and we get slightly fed up of eachother everynow and then but i need her and think about her soo much ill protect her too and i love her. The thing is there both pretty but i dont have sexual feelings for them, and there both straight, and i fancy men. So am i gay, obsessed, do i need help? .. i love them so much i even get slightly jealous when they have bf's ... anyone view would help me see x
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reader, nataliehouse +, writes (24 June 2009):
i think you are completely normal. your at an age where you will question yourself in that way. youve already said yourself that you dont fancy your friends. if you dont have a boyfriend, i think maybe you just want to find someone who is like your friends personality-wise, because your close to them and love them. your feelings could fade away eventually, or even if things progress and you do start to fancy them or even fall in love, that does not in any way mean you are weird or need help! it just means you are a normal person and cant help how you feel.
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