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writes:please help me i'm confused.when i was 15 i went to a party did things i'm not proud of i got drunk and made out wit a guy i barely met.i honestly remember the whole thing but the next day i lied and said i dont remember anything but i did.he drank a pill because he had a headache(the guy i met at the party) and he also drank and felt not good so i gave him water and kept drinking wat was in the bottle(i understand i'm young to be parting) then i asked him if he wanted to sit at the couch and he did i walked him there then all of a sudden we started making out them he took me to meet his couzin(which i already knew but i played along like i had no idea) he asked me how old i was i said 16 (but i was actually 15) he was 18 at the time.we danced and then went to walk to a park close by the peoples house and he kept telling me not to let a guy mis treat me and control me i kept saying i wont,then the party got boring the alcohool wore out and we kinda ignored each other.never talked since thenfew months ago i went to a concert and saw him there his friend kept saying man shes hear and stuff he kept smiling and his friend checked me out.then i passed by his friend and he said hi to me and he was like oh wait and he called the guy but i just walked away because i had backstage passes and i wanted to meet and take pics wit the singers.last week i went to a soccer game because i love soccer guys and he plays soccer so i went he saw me in shock because i dont really show up there.but my ex was there whos in love wit me so i couldnt really show off because my ex would think i'm doing all that to him.so anyway his other friend saw me pointed at me so that the other guy can see me and he drove off.so basacly my life is filed wit drama i dont hang out wit those people but somehow i'm in there mouths .my main question is wats up wit this guyhe wasnt that drunk and he hooked up wit me and now all of a sudden his a damn asshole?? please help me i understand this is long
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (24 June 2009):
 I know your main question is "wats up wit this guy"? I haven't a clue wats up wit him. However my advice is for you to stay in school and study hard, very, very hard.
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reader, That Fragile Capricorn +, writes (24 June 2009):
 Just forget this guy, really cause he was probably just looking for some fun that night. He kinda sounds immature, and it sounds like he doesn't respect you at all, or even really care. Forget all those losers and find a real guy that can care for you. I'm sure there's guys out there who would like a chance at you.
Good Luck sweetie, keep me updated.
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reader, Mrs_K  +, writes (24 June 2009):
He is an asshole!! He sweetened you up by saying 'dont let a guy mistreat you'. Funny how that was at the forefront of his mind, unless you said something to prompt him to say it! From how you described your story, you don't seem to have much interst in this guy so just ignore him and trust your instincts. I do not mean to sound offensive but you seem like a bright girl so do not pretend you are stupid or guys like this will flock to you. I used to do the same thing and ended up in a situation that I deeply regret.
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (24 June 2009):
 You're young, at your age life does seem as though it is full of drama however, when you gain experiences and age you will realise that your life wasn't full of drama, just a lot of immature people, mistakes and minor problems which seem like the end of the world. So just relax about things, don't let anything phase you because you will soon realise how stupid you sound making small things out to be 'drama' x
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (24 June 2009):
 he probably was just looking to make out with you and that's it but i think he does like you i mean at the concert his mates telling him you were he's obviously told people about you.
just try talking to him get his email address or something and talk to him further find out what's going on.
i mean i am guessing you like him right?
so why not talk to him see if he wants to go out somewhere sometime? no harm in that :)
hope this helps sweety :) x x x message me you need anything else.
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