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writes: About 6 years ago, I started seeing someone. I didn't tell my family because i wasn't ready to tell them. Some how my aunt found out about us. She went and told all the women in the family and she was suppose to be my friend. Then she went to his job asking people questons about him. I was so angry at her , because it was none of her business and I wanted to tell when I was ready. She was never about this with any other guy that wanted to talk to me. I really feel like she was just being nosey or she wanted him for herself. I never told the family, because things didn't work out between us. I still hurt a little about our break up and I would like to forget about him. My aunt saw him about a month ago and she was getting ready to tell me, but I told her I didn't want to know if she saw him. She continued to tell me and I told her again if you see him you don't have to tell me. If I never said anything about him in 6 years to her about him , she should know that she is not someone I want to talk to about him.Anyway she went on after I told her. I feel as she did not respect my feeling and just wanted to be nosey. I wish she would be a bit more mature, because I would never invade what she didn't want me to or disreguard her feeling unless she was in danger and I wanted to help her or I was just plan selfish.I love my aunt but I do not trust her and was very hurt when she spreaded my business years ago. I need to get over this guy and it would help if doesn't start up again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2009): Hi I thank all of you for your help. since I find this site I have been helped so much by you all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2009): I know you don't want to appear ignorant towards her, but I think if I were you, after telling her you don't want to hear what she has to say and if she continued, I'd turn around and show her the back of my head. Some people just can't help invading other people's space and poking their noses in where it's not wanted.
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