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*izzie25
writes:me and my boyfriend tried to have sex but, it didnt work. he says its not my fault its just my body isnt ready. do you have any sugestions as to what to do about this?also he says he needs to be able to put 2 fingers in easily before his dick will fit. is this true?
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reader, imcurioustoo +, writes (25 June 2009):
Hey I know what's going on I was like that .. Try a lot of foreplay and a very nice setting music candles etc. Let him make you feel compfortable and relaxed and sexy and wanted then you should be aroused and wet so your body will be more excepting to him.. And by the way there's no such thing as being "loose" there's only having an excepting and sexually active body.. That's it.. And maybe your not ready .. For me I just knew .. It felt right and it was I've been with him for a year and 2 months tomorrow.. Lemme know what happens
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reader, Renee okc +, writes (25 June 2009):
being that you are young i am sure he wont fit but what he doesnt know is that he wont ever fit if he doesnt put it in you body will gradually adjust to him and you will stretch out over time it is not something that can happen over night so you tell mr no it all that if you ask me you probably should wait to have sex because your mind might be ready and your body may not or visa versa but if you take your time you will eventually stretch out to where he needs you to be but be care not to get your stuff all out of shape no one wants a loose goose
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2009): If you feel you're ready to have sex emotionally and mentally you are physically. If anything your boyfriend should praise you for being tight. it means it will feel better for both of you, but you do have to mentally ready. If not you won't be able to relax the muscles in the walls of your vagina and you will be too dry. You should take the time to think if you can relax. If you can't maybe you should wait.
(One other perk of relaxing is better orgasms)
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reader, daletom +, writes (25 June 2009):
Two fingers? Your vagina is a ring of muscle tissue that can stretch to pass a whole baby! Yes, your body probably isnt' ready - and I would guess that your body isn't ready because either your mind or your emotions aren't yet ready.
After you are mentally and emotionally ready, then get your body ready by spending some time - a few weeks to several months - doing non-penetrative things with your B/F. Learn each others' response, and how to pleasure each other, without intercourse. Physiologically you will be the most open, and the most relaxed, and the most lubricated, and ready to envelope his dick with your vagina, in the moments after he helps you to orgasm.
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