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anonymous
writes:hey guyswanting your advice!!!Basically...I want to know what you guys think of this situation ( and me..)i have only ever kissed two people before, the first guy was at this party i went to (it was only a few months ago) the guy took my number and never called me, it took a while to understand why but i just thought he was only looking for fun, so I allowed that.then the same thing happened with another guy, i even asked if he was the type to not get back to me and he was like 'nah dont worry, course i'll text you' you see, i dont want people to look down on me, i am surrounded by couples, and have never dated and so think I fall for the attention i get from others easily...I felt real bad after the second guy, and feel a bit like a fool..I AM young, so I guess its okay, and lots of people do it right? I Dont know..I dont want people to think badly of me..and also...why didnt they get back to me?!
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reader, AngellicaWaters +, writes (25 June 2009):
 It seems like you are looking for a relationship like your friends have. If this is what you are looking for, you will need to go about things a bit differently. Try thinking of it this way... if you were interviewing for a job as a waitress position you would act like a waitress to get hired...but if you were interviewing for a job as a business women, you wouldn't go to your interview acting like a waitress.
Your actions are not matching up with what you are looking for, this is the problem with the guys you meet not calling you.
If you are looking for a relationship and a boyfriend, you have to go into each social situation acting like a girlfriend and not a party girl.
Party girls 'hook up' and kiss/have sex with guys who show no intention of forming a relationship.
Girlfriends go on dates and they don't kiss unless they are on a date. You are a prize that a man has to win, in order to get what you want (a relationship) you have withhold what a man ultimately wants (sex/hooking up) for long enough that you can establish an agreement of a relationship.
Do not give the prize that is you away to just anyone. A man that respects you will date you, get to know you and treat you like a princess while waiting for you to give him his prize.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2009): There's a lot of guys and girls out there just looking to hookup
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2009): Maybe these guys want more of a challenge, and since kissing them so quickly doesnt suggest much else would be to hard they move on. Next time play a little hard to get when giving out your number, they will be intrigued to want more.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni realise my qu is vague..its jus, my mates dont see me as a flirt, but i flirt when im out- cus guys are interested..and it not just any random guys, but guys I like..
im not even sure what i want answered..i just dont want to be judged!!!
should I not flirt as much? (its not even if im leading guys along...so im not bad right?) I guess this is typical teenagee behavious? its just my mates are all coupled up so they dont do it..?
hmm
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