Why won't she return my call?

A male age 36-40, *yte529 writes:

I met this girl about a month and a half ago, and we started talking, and hanging out all the time. She would stay the night multiple times, sometimes days at a time. She would also leave her things over at my place. Ive met her parents and she has asked me to come to her house and hang out as well. Maybe 4-5 times. We have such a great! time together, no matter if we go out, stay in, or just go for a walk. I like this girl a lot, but were not dating even though sometimes it feels that way. She knows that i really like her, and maybe it was bad to tell her so soon, but for some reason when we hang out everything's perfect, and when were not together it seems so different. She doesn't call or text that much, kind of bothers me, but anyways the other day she says to me that she wants what we have together, but need to slow down, the next day she comes over for a couple hrs and wasn't feeling that great so when she left she took the things she had left over, we kissed and everything and said goodnight, the next morning i try to call her and she doesn't pick up or return my call. the same thing today, no text or phone call, but i didn't call her today either, because I'm trying not to seem so into her, and maybe make her come my way a little more. I like her so much! and feel miserable when I'm not with her or when we don't talk, so if anyone could please give me some advice i would appreciate it... i don't want to lose this girl, but in the mean time even though everything is perfect when were together, it seems different when were not, and i haven't talked to her in the last couple days... She did tell me that with in the last couple months she just got out of a pretty bad relationship, so i was kind of thinking that had something to do with it?? i also know that her mother really likes me, and i think this girl wants what we have, but I'm not so sure with the way things are sometimes when were not hanging out. and i really don't know why she wouldn't return my call or even try to get a hold of me in the last couple days. I just don't know what to do!!! Thanks for any advice!!!

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