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writes:hi guys i'm menna,14 years old i like a guy,even some times i feel that i love him ,he's about 19 year bt the problem is he wanna us to have sex he tells me that he likes me bt i feel that he says it to make me have sex with him i never felt that he like me bt i really wanna have sex with him bt i can't do it with him coz i'm too young and i'm from Egypt and here u can't have sex with a guy even if he is ur b/f this is a rule or if u did the people will talk about you and say that you are a bitch bt when i says to him the people will talk about me he said they won't know that u make this with me i really don't know wt to do plz every body help me Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2009): Seriously?! You're 14! No offence, but you haven't yet learned proper grammer, punctuation, or even to capitalize an "I." It comes across very childish. Which brings me to my point, you're still a child. Take the time to be a child; it's not a bad thing to linger in adolesence. I lost it at 15. It was a huge mistake. I didn't understand the reverberation sex would have on my life. Being too young when you lose your virginity takes it's toll emotionally. I don't know why, but it does. There is no specific age that is "good" or "bad." However, you know you the best and it sounds like your not ready. If he loves you he will stay with you without sex. Besides, a 19 year old with a 14 year old screams "creeper." Be wary of this man and protect yourself as long as possible. My heart goes out to you.
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reader, identifiable  +, writes (24 June 2009):
 ITs seems it isnt worth the cost of being outcasted by your society... if you want to have sex with him noone can stop you but it would be reaosnable to say you should wait for someone you really like, your so yound aswell the law is there for a reason as well as sex being jkust fun , i dont belive you are emotionally mature enough to handle the responsibilty of sex.. therefore hun just leave it ,you'll regret it otherwise, you dont have to wait for after marraige maybe just for another guy x
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reader, xxbaybeegal +, writes (24 June 2009):
 Don't be pressured into having sex with him. He only says all of that because he feels that it will make you want to have sex with him.
Just take a look at the age, your 14 he's 19. He's probably thinking about what career he wants to persue in whilst you are in school. Don't waste your time with boys and focus more in school.
If you did have sex with him, he could just run of afterwards and you wouldn't see him again. That would be extremely sad as (if your a virgin) he would just take your virginity away.
If i was in your shoes i wouldn't bother with a guy like him. He might say he loves you ect, but he could be lying and pressuring you into sex.
Good Luckk x
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2009): he is just a player do not listen to him and better to get away off him. stay away this kind is not that good.
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reader, mitta +, writes (24 June 2009):
Definitely dont do it. You said yourself that you dont really think he likes you. And especially if people will look down on you and judge you for it, its not worth doing.
You are still young, you should wait a good few years and meet the man you really love and want to be with. If you give yourself away to this guy and then you break up you will feel really guilty about it when you cant give the gift of your virginity to someone you really care about and cares for you back.
This guy just wants to use you. Dont give in. you will be disappointed in yourself.. and honestly sex isnt all that amazing when its with someone you arent in love with anyway.
Hope this helps.
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reader, betty_black +, writes (24 June 2009):
 Dont do it. If you know its illegal and you know you dont wanna do it then the answer is simple. Get your head out of the clouds and dump this guy. hes not worth even thinking about!
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (24 June 2009):
 Don't have sex with him! He sounds like he is just saying things to make you have sex with him, don't contact him because you will find someone who will respect you eventually! X
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reader, holikdad  +, writes (24 June 2009):
You're correct, you're to young. He's only saying those things to you because he wants one thing, sex, and that's it. Tell him that you prefer to wait until you're older and if he really loved you then he would respect your decision.
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