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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend seems so not interested in me any more. He has been acting werid. He used to care who I talked to and he knows hiss ex hates me and I want him to stop talking to her. He did for a while but he is talking again. The funny thing he said I'm controlling who he talks to, I just said I didn't like him to, I didn't care and he stopped and is blaming me for it.He used to say I love you and talked to me all the time. He doesn't do it much any more, but when he does it's when he thinks he's upset me. I don't want to lose him, I just want to know what I should do and if he wants to leave before I get really hurt.
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reader, Ms.Helper  +, writes (25 June 2009):
 Just ask him straight up; if he's letting his ex control him and the relationship he has with you, then to be honest he's not worth it in the first place!If he doesn't respect and understand why you don't want him taking advice from his ex, on his current relationship then he's crazy.Good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2009): my god you just told my last relationship ina nutshell but it was his ex who was telling me i was controlling him well basically what happened in my relationship was he lsitened to his ex and didnt beleive me and he finished me after going out with me for over a year and now his ex is telling him not to tlak to me so hes not :'( i think you should ask him straight out if theres anything up and explain why you dont like him talking to his ex and i know you might be scared of his anwer but its got to better than not knowing and worrying about it and its better beign single than being in a relationship where one ot both person are unhappy
- MM x
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