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writes:My girlfried just moved. Shes been hanging out with her 30 year old land lord she is 18. We're on a "break" like were not together all the time. she is with him alot watching movies shopping exc.. im i just really jelous or does there seem to be some kind of relationship there. im really pissed about it. she said that they werent dating but what else do you call it. she now says that she wont talk to him anymore. oh and they were texting all the time to one another.
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reader, Renee okc +, writes (25 June 2009):
It seems to me that she is moving on with her life while your sitting around wondering what the hell is she doing she is doing what your not doing living buddy get a grip i would say that she probably is screwing him too. she sure is spending alot of time with a older man but then again have you ever thought maybe he isnt her type. to be frank with you i would just move on with your life and if it is ment to be then ya'll will get back together if not oh well it was a good run while it lasted she probably likes being around him because he seems mature but last i checked 30yr olds didnt hang out with 18 yr old females PLEASE JUST DONT BE STUPID ITS SOMETHING GOING ON NOW WHAT WHO KNOWS AND SHE PROBABLY IS KEEPING YOU ON DECK IN CASE IT DOESN'T WORK OUT WITH HIM.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2009): If it's a "break" then you should assume she's probably screwing him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2009): if your on a break that means taht you are both free to see other people and who she chooses to spend her time with is up to her. if she says they aren't dating then that answer should be good enough for you. if i were you i would concentrate more on where your relationship is with her rather than what her status is with others
it sounds like you still care alot for her, if you didn't then you wouldn't care who she is hanging out with and wouldn't be acting like a jealous boyfriend. best advice figure out what you want out of this relationship or if the relationship is still worth pursuing and work on that.
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reader, Mary2012 +, writes (24 June 2009):
I think there is definatly something going on between them and she is lying about it. You need to break up for good and then you can find someone better.
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