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writes:I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for about 2 years, before he was like the perfect guy in the world and I was soo happy. Today, I am happy with him but due to his moods-swings and his attitude, I don't know what's wrong with him. He says he loves me and can't live without me and is gonna marry me.. but still something is missing. He used to meet me 5-6 times a week but 2 weeks before he got his job (nite duty) and we met once (coz I work at day time), am I'm feeling wierd coz of I haven't met him or is there any other problem with him..? I know he loves me, but as he used to say I LOVE U a lot to me, he doesn't say it any more... and no, there is not any other girl in his life other than ME!I Love him a lot and don't want to lose him. What should I do?? How can he be the same guy? plzz help me Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank u both! =)
Maybe he is a lil stressed out coz he never wanted to work but had to coz to earn money for studies..hhmm, so guys dun have the need to say ''I Love U'' but he used to say it so many times a day but nowadays, i dun hear this from him anymore..like today, we've been talkin on the ph but he can't say those 3 words n i dun wanna say it either coz i feel like he does'nt like me anymore :(
n how can i spice things up..any suggestions??
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2009): Maybe this new job is just the issue here. When people are stressed out from work they often take it out on those closest to them. Try to meet him in the day when you have a day off work, and ask him if there's a particular reason for his moodyness/lack of expressing his love. Remember that guys don't always feel the need to say 'I love you' like we do! As I said it's probably work taking it's toll, but if you want to sort this out you need to talk to him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2009): he might be bored spice things up in the sack do some crazy shit he will like it maybe it will help
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