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writes:My husband is flirting over the internet. He goes into instant messenger and flirts with women all over the world. When I confront him, he says its just a joke, nothing serious, it just a hobby. One of these ladies told him she would be visiting the county where he lives for 8 days. He asked her how many days would he get from her out of that . She said 3. He said no I need 5 days and 5 nights!!!!. I have asked him to stop this practice. But he still continues to do do . What do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2009): a hobby- nonsense. he is getting sexualkicks from these flirtings. this man is disrespectful. throw him to the wolves. he is getting away with murder.
if you are really hardpressed to have him in your life, then you also start flirting on the net. see whether he changes his tune then. tell him you now also have a new hobby. don't just threaten this new hobby. do it.
2 wrongs do not make a right, but here, you are fighting for survival. if he ever meets up with this woman, kick his sorry ass out before he can even say " hobby"
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (24 June 2009):
 Threaten him with divorce! He sounds like a total idiot! Or you could guess his password and disable his account, if you do guess his password then you have to change his security question too so that he won't be able to get on his account again! X
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reader, holikdad  +, writes (24 June 2009):
Pack his bag and put him out on the street like the trash he is. This is not a hobby, it's disrespectful and rude to you his wife.
And it's not a hobby, he just hasn't been lucky enough to meet one of these women physically, and when he has the opportunity he'll take it.
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reader, Your friend  +, writes (24 June 2009):
 He's flirting on line, having fun and is probbly some what addicted by it, the problem is he just might get a bite whether he wants to or not and thats where the temptation is. For the time being just keep an eye on him and watch for irregular behaviour like password protecting his phone or computer and keep an eye on anything like staying at a mates place overnight etc.
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