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writes:I am in a relationship with a girl but I still fancy my ex girlfriend whom I dated in college. My ex girlfriend says no she will never date me again. What should I do about my feelings for my ex?
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reader, Juliecupid83  +, writes (24 June 2009):
If the ex said no which mean she totally moved on and found someone new. I know its hard to let go someone you truly love. It hurts the first time but if you start avoiding her and stop calling her and spend more time with your new girlfriend you will forget about her. Love is about learning. When you were with your ex things did not work out like you want it to be. But there are always plenty of girl who will not ignore you and be happy to be with you. You didn't not just fell in love with your ex the first time you saw her. You learned to love her. The same thing with your girl right now. Start to get to know her more and you might fall in love at the end. If you really love your ex you need to set her free if she comes back to you which mean you guys are meant for each other. Loving other people they don't have to be with you or love you back. To love is not about selfish or controlling is allowing them to feel whats in their heart. If she don't have no feelings for you anymore. You can't change it the best thing for you to do is to keep your love to yourself and give it someone that will value your love and be with you which is your new girl right now. Don't take her for granted because once you learn to love her. She might feel rejected because you are not giving her the love and the attention she needed. Try to play a fair game. Don't be the cold one and only care about your feelings. Think about other people around your new girl and your ex they both have feelings . Eventhough your ex give up on you. Your new girl still there waiting for you to love her back and give her what she deserve. If somehow you can't learn to love her let her go cuz you don't want to use just to forget your ex. It's not fair for your new girlfriend.
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reader, cherry cherry boom boom +, writes (24 June 2009):
You should spend more quality time with your girlfriend and, have more good times with her and if you can't forget about another girl while with you girlfriend then you don't need to be with her. But if it's ment to be with your ex then fate will bring you together. This ya girl, peace
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reader, AskEve +, writes (24 June 2009):
 If your ex has told you that there's no chance of a reconcilliation with her then you need to forget about her and concentrate on looking for the good qualities in the girlfriend you have now. You're not being fair to her dating her and fancying someone else. Shoe on the other foot would YOU be happy if she felt this way for someone else? If the feelings for your ex are so strong that you keep thinking about her then it might be a good idea to rethink your present relationship through as you're not ready to be in another relationship while your ex is still so strongly on your mind.~Eve~
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (24 June 2009):
 You should forget them and move on. If she said she won't date you then she has made up her mind and it's best to leave well alone.
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reader, Mary2012 +, writes (24 June 2009):
If she doesn't want you then there is nothing you can do. Just let her go. In time the feelings should go away.
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